The way we speak, is what we get in life,

The way we speak, is what we get in life. Living your life the way you do, is it for you the right way! Does life the way you live it, gives you the satisfaction you want to feel? Or are there things you want, but can't get?

We deal with others all day long, with whom we communicate, converse, discuss, and differ in opinion. The way we feel about ourselves at that moment, the way we are, largely determines how or how we communicate. After all, it is not only the words that we pronounce that are important, but just as well the energy that we radiate at that moment.

If we aren't comfortable in our own skin, we can just be short of dust. We may not even want contact at that time. The words you use have an impact. There are countless factors that play a role in our conversation. Talking is so self-evident that we don't dwell for a second on how we pronounce the words, that we can sometimes come across as unkind to the other person, either compelling or too sweet. Everything has an impact.

One moment you want to make something clear to the one. The other time you want to exchange ideas about something. Then you want to give your opinion. Then you just want to say something nice. Or you want to express emotions with it. Everything goes without saying and is worded into something that we use all day long and don't stop for a second.

Saying something has a meaning. You want to achieve something with it. You want to achieve something with every word you make. If only you like it, otherwise it is so quiet. What you want to achieve is, to get something. But we do not reach our goal in every way we speak. Often not. Because if we want to achieve something, our words can be more compelling and come across as unkind to the other.

You get what you want, not by getting angry, but by setting limits, and we think that is scary. And we find that scary, because then we think we don't get what we want. That we will lose another. For that reason we get angry and express it with words. For that reason we become silent and we don't speak words because we do not get what we want.

Getting angry because you don't get what you want, is being powerless. The other person has such power over you that you have allowed. You have spoken to each other, but you have not used the right words and actions. You have not indicated what you are up to, then the other person doesn't know either. So how do you get what you want? By saying what you need. By getting angry, you only show that you don't get what you want, the other person overrules you and you go over it again.

And so annoying discussions and silences arise, which cause a removal. Because we don't state what we want. And we look for answers, help and support in the spiritual. We luckily find a nice medium that reveals what we are missing. We start to chat with a medium on medium chat 4 all. It has cost you something, the conversation with the medium, but what insights have you received that you can get started with.

Finally you see the difference, that you yourself was the one with there own actions, she didn't get what see want in life. Because the words were spoken, were not the right one.

You see that getting angry has no effect, that it invalidates you. That you are going to say the words that you are going to say from now on, because then you will get what you want.

Talk kind, nice, with boundaries, so you show selfrespect, that is the only way to get what you want in life, to live a happy life.

Claire Medium chat 4 all
 

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Date: 19-03-'19

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